Comfy, Sexy, and Completely for You Outfits
The Power of Casual-But-Hot
There’s something insanely attractive about “casual sexy” — that sweet spot where you’re not trying too hard but still feel amazing. For me, that could be anything along the lines of:
A ribbed tank and loose sweatpants
A soft bralette under an oversized button-down
Bare legs paired with a chunky sweater
Minimal makeup, messy bun, fluffy socks
It’s intimate. It’s real. It’s the kind of sexy that sneaks up on you — the kind that feels natural instead of performed.
And honestly? It photographs beautifully.
That soft, undone energy translates into some of the most authentic images. So if you’re planning a boudoir session (or just want to feel a little extra on your own), don’t underestimate the basics.
A Few Outfit Ideas I’m Loving Right Now
Below I’ve linked some of my favorite comfy-but-sexy pieces in this post — things you can lounge in, sleep in, or throw on for a casual at-home shoot.
Like any of these items? Simply click the photo and start shopping!
Tanks are one of my go-to pieces for both lounging and shooting — especially ones with buttons like this. You can leave a few undone to tease the bra underneath, or go topless for an even steamier, effortless vibe.
And remember: your colors don’t need to match perfectly. Subtle variations, like the ones here, actually make the outfit feel even cozier while adding that little bit of visual interest that photographs beautifully
Sheer anything is always a win in my book — especially when you let your lingerie peek through. This sweater is perfect layered over a bralette, giving you that soft, effortless sexy vibe. And if you’re feeling a little bolder… skip the bra entirely and let the sheerness do all the talking 😉
Other fun layering pieces are cropped tops, ripped oversized jeans, or oversized tanks. Click the photos below to shop!
Now onto lingerie…here are some of my favorite casual looks that really pack a punch!
This is one of my all time favorite sets! It’s an elevated version of the classic Calvin Klein set, fits every body beautifully, and comes in so many great colors. I have recommended this to hundreds of clients who all ended up getting it in multiple colors at it just perfectly blends that sexy and casual look.
Ribbed cotton has never looked so good! This set is gorgeous for lounging, but also for a shoot with some water droplets added (just saying!)
Sheer lingerie is a great way to add some sex appeal to a more casual look. Softer pastel colors like this add a more innocent and feminine touch as well.
Bodysuits are such a staple in the lingerie world — they’re one of those pieces that truly can’t go wrong. They can be effortlessly casual or turn up the heat with barely-there details. This one is the perfect example: soft, comfortable lace paired with sheer panels and that little metal chain moment… it’s simple, sexy, and full of visual interest without trying too hard.
Like a little more of a vintage feel? Go with a babydoll set like this that combines softness, sheerness, and comfort all into one!
Pajamas don’t have to be boring! This satin set is comfy, gorgeous, and has so many fun details on it.
A Final Little Reminder
Whether you’re curling up in bed, dancing in your kitchen, or stepping in front of my camera someday…
you deserve to feel good in your own skin, so give some of these casual yet oh-so-sexy looks a try!